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Emilia Rodriguez
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Emilia Rodriguez
Dec 29, 2014

Prayer Request

I am in desperate need of prayer am confused and need guidance from the Lord because I don't know what to do..I have 2 grandkids that right now my son and their mom are battling in court for child support and custody. The kids want to go live with my son (right now they live with her and he has alternate wkends also I take care of them everyday because she works and she dosent even have to pay me because I just want them here with me. They have been born and raised in this house the only stable home they have known)the mom is living now with a military man and to prove what a "good mom" she has rules in the house which have changed since he began living with her. They have to ask to get something from the refrigerator no snacks or sweets before bed simple things and not that grave. The thing is lately she is always giving them corporal punishment or screaming at them and when they cry she opens the door and they have to cry outside because the noise bothers her (this has never happened before). I am terrified that they tell my son that she told them that they gonna have to get use to him (the new guy) punishing them. So far what he has done is take away privileges away like no TV and sending them to their room) but am so scared they tell my son and things get bad you see hes already in trouble he caught her cheating on him and he ended up in jail and now serving parole. I am terrified that if the kids slip they are 10 and 5 things can get out of hand. I am afraid of calling DCF on her because what if they put them with strangers and something worse happens to them. I dont know what to do PLEASE PRAY THAT THE LORD GIVES ME A SIGN TO DO THE RIGHT THING WITHOUT ANYONE GETTING HURT. I thought of talking to her but she will punish Jay already she told him that whatever happens in her house to dont tell me or their dad..I know prayers can go a long way and be answered so PLEASE my Brothers and Sisters pray and pray hard for me and my grandkids we need it. Thank you and may GOD take care of your needs as well..Amen..

Emilia
Emilia Rodriguez
Dec 4, 2014

Prayer Request

I am asking for much needy prayer for myself and my son Brian. He has started his battle with the mother of his children in court but now that she is with a live in boyfriend things are becoming more worse. To me that I have always tried to maintain the peace have never stopped watching my grandchildren even when she left then with me to put my son in jail for being caught with another man my son paid for that till this day on probation. He lost a career that he would had had as a nurse hes is good with people and would had made such a difference but because of her and him reacting the way he did well now hes paying loans for a career that he can't work in. She is testing me every single day and I really am losing my patient with her. I constantly have to ask the Lord to PLEASE calm me down because she gets under my skin. Now because the boyfriend is military and she wants to prove shes a disciplinarian
my poor grandson is suffering. She hits him but dosen't leave marks and she told him just this past Sunday that if he continued with that attitude over a snack he asked her before going to bed. She did not want to give it to him so he started crying explained by him she grabbed him by the wrist and told him "that what happens in her house stays in her house and that he better not tell me or my son because she was gonna make sure that he dosen't see him again". It broke my heart my son not because he is my son is a good father his priority is his kids even when they weren't together she keep bringing the kids here every other wkend and my son would take them to the park other birthday parties from his friends. He plays with them helps them with their homework (because she can't even do 3rd grade math) my grandson has to call hes dad over the phone so he can explain it to him. I just want the Lord to shine his bright light and allow all her lies to be exposed in court for the world to seee and for the kids not to lose their mom but for my son to gain full custody and give her alternates wkends. Lately she is more of a woman than a mom she keeps promising them that she gonna take them places and then blames my oldest because according to her hes being bad all the time. I worry what are the ramifications of what she is doing to this child he is constantly angry and dosen't want to leave with her but we don't have a choice. He begs me if he can stay here or with his Dad and we can't to anything. So with a broken heart i send him back to her his baby brother since hes 5 and is so used to going back and forth hes not affected but because Jayden lived with them as a family that is all what he wants back but these to are 2 toxic for each other and after what she did my son he will never go back to her. I appreciate all of u that are going to take time to pray for my family and for things to go smooth..May the Lord keep u and grant u many blessings as well.Thank you and AMen....

Emilia
Emilia Rodriguez
Oct 3, 2014

Prayer Request

I feel very desperate for my grandchildren but especially for Jayden that is 10 yrs. old. The breakup from his parents has truly affected him and it dosen't seem to get better. He's mom introduces a new man to the household from one day to another. She never took in consideration his feelings. My son adores his 2 boys and despite that he was not raised in a broken home (my husband and I have been together for 38 yrs.) and that was the kind of relationship he thought he would have but it did not turn out that way. She has been with her new partner for 6 months. I can see the change in my grandson I have practically have raised him and hes brother this has been the anchor my home but it seems that she is acting more of a woman than a mom. It hurts me so much to see how angry he is becoming day after day. Today iI was totally scared, angry and devastated the way he came home from school. She picks them up and drops them off and has then only for about 3 to 4 hrs. in the evening and then they have alternate wkends. This child came in threw his book bag on the floor and wished his mom dead that he hated her that he did not want to go back to her and hes been begging me that he wants to stay with me or his dad. The problem is she has already has gotten my son in trouble he caught her with another man in his bed and he has been the one paying for it by ending up in jail and on parole. I most of the time have the kids or him but we know that she wont allow these kids to live with him. She calls or sends him text messages telling him his a dead beat dad when he sees his children everyday. They had arrangements that she would provide for them when they are with her and he provides for them when they are with him which is out of the wk up to 4 or 5 days a wk.. The problem since hes new man sends money to his baby's mother so know my son dosent provide for his according to her. My grandson says he beats him with a belt and that when she is angry with her new partner he takes it out on him. I am now vigilant checking him to see if i see marks in his body. I don't know what to do PLEASE I URGE YOU TO TAKE THE TIME AND PRAY FOR US THAT THE LORD WOULD ENLIGHTEN ME TO DO THE RIGHT THING. I know she has done so much damage to my son and now her own child but i need guidance and truly make the decision of telling authorities. I don't want my grandson to end up another abused kid. There are so many pieces to this puzzle and that this is way am confused and don't know what to do..I thank you for taking the time to PRAY for our family. My son even with a crappy job and we in a fixed income are trying to help him fight for custody ( we retain a lawyer) which I know is going to be messy and costly because of our financial situation but we really don't have a choice. PRAY THAT THE LORD BE ON OUR SIDE AND WE CAN SAVE THIS CHILD OF A WORLD OF HURT THANK U..

Emilia
Emilia Rodriguez
Aug 17, 2014

Prayer Request

Please pray for my grandson Jayden that his mom can PLEASE think of her children 1st and not be so selfish. She has this competition with my son and making them a pawn in everything she says and does. My poor grandson only wants for his father to take him and his brother for the 1st day of school on Tuesday and already she is making a war out of it. My grandson is 10 and he is still hurt that his mom and dad are not together and it's been 2 and a half yrs. but only this wk. he was crying and telling his mom he wanted his family back. My son moved on to someone that finally loves him values him and adores his kids since she was a neighbor and has known them since birth. She has always been around them but in turn their mom also moved on but she moved in the guy telling them that he was her friend but that Mamy loved him and that now he was going to live with them. While all the time telling my grandson that it was only going to be her and his brother forever. I had told her she was making a great mistake by telling him that because kids hold on to everything u tell them and when u break those promises they don't take it well they build up resentment and that is what is happening. I am asking God to PLEASE give me the right words tomorrow so I can reason with her and for her to just think about her son and to don't take everything so personal and make Jay resent her more than he does alright. P.S. They cry everyday and time that she comes to pick them up from my house because am their babysitter. They want to stay with grandma or with their Papy ( he dosen't live with me he has his own apt.). It breaks my heart seeing, hearing Jay crying because she tells him he's not 21 and it is what she says.. I question myself if am doing the right thing in talking to her. I need clarity Lord I BEG OF YOU PLEASE HELP ME AM DESPERATE AND MY HEART IS BROKEN SEEING MY GRANDSON LIKE THAT..My God Bless u all and u are all in my prayers as well..AMEN..