So may people make such a monument out of the death of a loved one that they completely forget the beautiful live they had. You were truly blessed to be with your dad and the way he "said goodbye".

Amen. I needed to read this now.

God please hear the prayer of my sister. If it be in Your will open doors for her.

God you promised us in your word that if we know you in all the things in our life that you will show us the correct way to go. Please bring clarity to my sister.

Remember his life. I made a monument out of the day my love died and so many beautiful things passed me by because I was so wrapped up in my grieve. We must grieve. We must mourn those who moved on. But living the way God requested of us will ensure that we see them again in heaven one day.

On 9 February it will be 18 years that I lost the love of my life in a car accident. leaving me with nothing bur memories and a 2 year old son. With the help of the Lord I got by. I pray to our Father that He may take you in his loving arms and heal the wounds that are still so very fresh.