Karen, I'm praying that you find the strength and guidance to get through this terrible time. If it be in our Fathers will, that your marriage may be restored. I have been through a similar time many years ago . God brought the most wonderful man into my life after my divorce, we just celebrated our 37th anniversary. (sometimes the garbage takes itself out sweetie)
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I am praying for everyone involved in this complicated situation.