So, as God’s own chosen people, who are holy [set apart, sanctified for His purpose] and well-beloved [by God Himself], put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience [which has the power to endure whatever injustice or unpleasantness comes, with good temper]; bearing graciously with one another, and willingly forgiving each other if one has a cause for complaint against another; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so should you forgive.
COLOSSIANS 3:12‭-‬13 AMP
https://bible.com/bible/1588/col.3.12-13.AMP

This is so hard, because our soul wants to do the exact opposite, so, I'm praying for my friend's marriage today. My hope is that my friend and her husband both reach out to God, pray for one another and allow God to change their heart. I pray for reconciliation, transformation, and that they would each be filled with agape love. I ask the Lord to remind them both to give to each other what God gives to them so that they're both relying on the Father as their source and not returning blow for blow in their flesh. I thank God for the gift of marriage, Amen.