Let me share the message of the Lord for me and hope this will bring you the answer.

"When everyone around you seems to be in bad spirits, bickering and complaining, take a step back. It's so easy to answer in kind, but instead feel into your heart and answer gently. Let peace radiate from you."

When we pray the answer is no, yes and later.
No if its beyond what we understand but only God.
Yes if its the best for you, God will never lead us to sin.
Later as God wants us to heal, even a fruit when forced to ripe is sour...

Instead, I pray that God will give you strenght and understanding regardless of the outcome.
Trust the process and lift it all to him, he will not forsake you.